Inner Wellness Program

Becoming a more loving person isn’t just about grand gestures or perfect relationships — it’s about small, consistent acts of kindness, empathy, and self-awareness. We asked three individuals to share their thoughts on what it truly means to grow in love — not just for others, but also for ourselves. Their responses are heartfelt, honest, and might just inspire you to reflect on your own journey.

Antoinette Curry wrote:

“Becoming a more loving person isn’t just about grand gestures or perfect relationships — it’s about small, consistent acts of kindness, empathy, and self-awareness. We asked three individuals to share their thoughts on what it truly means to grow in love — not just for others, but also for ourselves. Their responses are heartfelt, honest, and might just inspire you to reflect on your own journey.”

Richard wrote:

Start by looking at nature is always a great start point.. you don’t need to be a hippy or tree hugger or a religious person to look at nature, life itself surrounds every single day, gain trust with birds & animals by feeding them, look at the colours in a butterfly’s wing, it’ll certainly amaze you with a calming effect, yeh sure you can squash it just like that 💪💪 but why?? Look for the good in others & not at their faults, you have plenty of faults & irritating flaws, learn to help those that need it, support those that like you want to change for the better, read stories to children & bring those books to life, watch their faces, for right at that moment you are the star with the center stage

Stephany Ann Milburn wrote:

he first place to start is to truly love yourself. And with this, you must practice the golden rule. Do into others as you would have them do to you. If you begin from this position you have a base of kindness and compassion. See things from the point of view of others . And remember to see all kinds of love, not just romantic.

Dr D D Rishi ·wrote:

People love you when you show the tendency to help others even when such a help is neither asked for nor expected from you. People also love you when they believe that you are always there for them whenever the need arises. You can be more loving person by being a more dependable person for the people around you.

People also seemingly love celebrities but that is more of ‘admiration’ than love. Love is a more intimate personal feeling which is generally on ‘person-to-person basis’.

Amie Sapiecha wrote:

Choose love.

Choose as loving of an outcome as you can for all in all aspects of your life.

Silvana wrote:

Try to see the best of each one. Have patience with the angry, forgive the fails of the persons. See the other like an extension of you, like a brother. Remember, what you do for other, return fpr you. Search for the light. 🤍

Tania Padley wrote:

In response to your question, based on my own life experiences;

The dictionary indicates that ‘a loving person’ is characterised by their genuine care, affection, and kindness towards others, often putting their needs and well-being before their own. They show empathy, compassion, and are supportive, understanding, and forgiving. Loving individuals are also known for being warm, affectionate, and appreciative of others.

My depiction of a loving person, is when one starts supplying themselves with a very healthy dose of self-respect (a feeling that one is behaving with honour and dignity) & self-esteem (a subjective sense of personal worth and value, encompassing how individuals feel about their abilities, traits, and overall worth.

Once we begin to value ourselves (appreciate our own worth) then we automatically go through a change of mind set. We would automatically know right from wrong. Why would we want to harm another person? We would stop being envious of others and not become angry and bitter because it appears that they are superior to our inferior mindset.

Loving another person should not be hard work; if it is, then we need to cut those people loose. Love is something that just flows as easily as our hearts beat on a daily basis. However, this does not mean that we should allow others to take advantage of our loving hearts!

We need to set boundaries with the understanding that not every person who says they love you, actually do!